Frequently Asked Questions

  • Please RSVP by March 2, 2026, to ensure we can accommodate everyone comfortably. You can RSVP via our wedding website. Click on the RSVP tab, enter your name, and indicate your attendance.

  • Both the ceremony and reception will take place indoors at The National Union Building in DC.

  • Please plan to arrive at least 30 minutes before the ceremony's start time to ensure sufficient time to park, locate your seat, and become settled. Out of respect for the ceremony, if you arrive late, you will be asked to wait outside until the ceremony is complete.

  • Yes! We’ve put together a list of nearby hotels with room block details and recommendations. You can find everything you need on our Accommodations page.

  • Absolutely, there is. We want to see color, texture, creativity, and ankle-to-floor-length dresses. Please take a look at our Wedding mood board to help get your creativity flowing. Don’t worry about doing too much, we encourage it!

  • Unfortunately there is a limit on the guests we can invite and cannot accommodate a plus one for everyone. If you are a special case where we have allowed you a plus one, we have listed their name or "Plus One" on your RSVP profile. If you feel we left out someone important, let us know, but understand that our limitations may mean our hands are tied.

  • No, our wedding will be an adults-only event.

  • Please let us know of any dietary restrictions or allergies when you RSVP so we can plan accordingly.

  • Absolutely! Feel free to use #ShepDayEver to help share your night with us and others.

  • We are so thankful you will be joining us for this celebration of our love. While gifts are not expected, we have registered for a honeymoon activity fund. A link to our wedding registry can be found here.

  • Yes, there will be plenty of dancing—so we invite you to bring your dancing shoes and join us on the floor.

  • Yes! We’ll have a full meal and a selection of drinks for you to enjoy throughout the celebration. We kindly ask all guests to drink responsibly. This is the bride and groom’s special day—anyone being disruptive will be asked to leave.

  • Yes! We recommend visiting the ‘Things to Do’ page of our wedding website, where we’ve compiled all of our favorite local hot spots and fun things to do in the area, including coffee shops, spas and restaurants to visit before or after the wedding.

  • Yes, there is street parking available nearby. Since the wedding is downtown and we’ll have an open bar, we recommend using a rideshare service for convenience and safety.